When I first traveled to South Korea, I thought I was prepared. I had my SIM card ready, subway app downloaded, and a list of must-try foods. But what caught me off guard wasn’t the logistics—it was the subtle moments when I realized I didn’t quite know how to behave.
A friendly Korean elder bowed slightly, and I awkwardly waved back. I almost walked into a traditional restaurant with my shoes on. And once, I reached out with one hand to pay at a café and got a quick lesson in manners from the barista’s kind but firm expression.
If you’re planning your first trip to Korea and don’t want to learn these things the hard way (like I did), here are the cultural etiquette basics that helped me feel more comfortable and respectful while traveling.
🙇 How to Greet Someone (and What Not to Do)
In Korea, people don’t shake hands the way they do in the West. A small bow or a slight head nod goes a long way, especially with elders or people in service roles. It doesn’t have to be deep—just a gesture of acknowledgment and respect.
🧍♂️ Tip from experience: When I met a host at a hanok stay, I bowed gently and said “Annyeonghaseyo”—and their face lit up. That little effort can mean a lot.
👞 Take Your Shoes Off—Really
If you’re entering a Korean home, a traditional guesthouse, or even some restaurants and cafés, removing your shoes is expected. There will often be a clear step-up and slippers waiting for you.
📸 I once walked halfway into a guesthouse before realizing everyone’s shoes were lined up neatly outside the door. I backed out so fast I almost tripped. Lesson learned.
🍽️ Eating and Table Manners
Wait for the oldest person at the table to start eating before you do.
Don’t stick chopsticks upright in rice—it’s associated with funerals.
Use both hands when pouring drinks, especially for someone older.
These aren’t strict rules, but they show mindfulness—and you’ll notice locals doing them naturally.
Bonus: If someone older offers to refill your glass, lift it with both hands and thank them. It feels formal at first, but quickly becomes second nature.
💬 Be Mindful in Public Spaces
Korean subways are quiet. Loud conversations, phone calls, or even listening to music without headphones will earn you side-eyes.
🤫 True story: I once laughed out loud at a TikTok video on the Line 2 train. A few passengers smiled politely, but one ajumma gave me the classic ‘don’t embarrass yourself’ look. After that, I kept it silent.
Also, don’t eat or drink on the subway. It’s not illegal—but it’s frowned upon.
🙅 What You Don’t Need to Do (That You Might Worry About)
You don’t need to tip. Most restaurants and taxis include service in the price.
Don’t panic if your bow isn’t perfect. Most Koreans are understanding.
You won’t be expected to speak Korean fluently—but polite efforts go a long way. Learn hello, thank you, and excuse me.
🛎️ Make Travel Easier with Cultural Comfort in Mind
Knowing the etiquette made my experience smoother—but combining that with practical planning helped too. If you’re prepping your trip:
💭 Final Thoughts
Korea doesn’t expect you to be perfect. People are kind and welcoming, especially when they see you’re trying.
So don’t stress—learn what you can, observe, and adjust. Most of all, enjoy the little moments: a smile from a stranger when you bow back, or the shared silence on a peaceful subway ride.
Those are the things that made me fall in love with Korea.
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